How to Make a Girl Like You
If you want to have any chance of getting the girl that you like, then you need to master the long lost art of learning how to make a girl like you. Unless you can consistently attract girls whenever you please, you're going to have a really tough time getting that one girl that you have a huge crush on. Fortunately, you can pretty much learn everything there is to know about how to make a girl like you right here.
How to Make a Girl Like You: Attitude Counts
The first and most important part learning how to make a girl like you is the attitude that you have. Although your appearance sends signals to people (especially girls), your attitude is what can turn you from an interesting guy to someone that she can't possible resist.
What kinds of attitude do girls tend to be attracted to?
- Positivity: People naturally gravitate towards positive people with a fun outlook on life. They're also naturally repelled by those that are negative.
- Openness: It's OK to be a little mysterious, but to really make a girl like you, then it's important that you're open. If you're closed off emotionally, it's going to be hard for you to connect with her.
- Being Funny: It's important to know how to make a girl laugh. Laughing helps not only put her at ease, but also helps forge a bond between you two. Of course, there's no need to act like a clown. Just be yourself and the rest should take care of itself (after all, guys are wired to be funny!).
- Strength: No, not the physical strength to bench press 400 lbs., but the strength required to hold your own and stand behind who you are as a person. I understand this is vague, but just remember that you should never bend your opinions or beliefs because of what a girl says. If you really want to understand how to make a girl like you, then it's crucial that you act congruent with who you are.
- Risk Taking: Girls love men that are willing to take risk and put themselves on the line. Of course, there's no need to jump a motorcycle over a pile of cars to prove yourself, but if you're timid and afraid all the time it's going to be hard to get the girl.
- Flirtatious: If you want to know how to make a girl like you more than a friend, then it's pretty important to know how to flirt. Flirting is really what separates a guy and girl who are friends from two people that are more than just friends.
How to Make a Girl Like You: Being Too Nice
One thing that many men that aren't well versed in how to make a girl like you tend to do over and over again is acting too nice around the girl that they like. This is commonly referred to as "Nice Guy Syndrome" and afflicts approximately 55% of guys (especially those searching for "how to make girls like you" on the internet!). How can you tell if you're acting too nice? The first sign is that you hold back and think about what you're about to say before you speak to her. Sure, you don't want to remove your filter and blurt out whatever comes to your mind, but you also don't want to consider how you phrase everything either.
Why does this matter? Because she can sense whenever you're too timid or afraid to speak. Guys that already know almost everything there is to know about how to make a girl like you don't hold back. They just say what's on their mind and hope for the best. Their attitude can be summed up like this: "I'm going to say what I want to say. If you like it, cool. If not, then that's OK too."
How to Make a Girl Like You: Jealousy
Imagine you're out at the mall with the girl you like and a group of friends. All of a sudden this tall, handsome guy comes over to her and starts flirting with her. How would that make you feel? Jealous, perhaps? Also, would this make you more attracted to her or less attracted to her? Most men would be more attracted after seeing her pursued by someone else.
As a sort of how to make a girl like you last resort, consider making the girl a teeny bit jealous. How can this be done tactfully and without hurting her feelings? The easiest and most effective way to make her jealous is to simply spend more time with your female friends. You don't need to blow her off or anything like that, just make plans with your girlfriends more often than usual. This will at least get her thinking about whether or not she is attracted to you. In fact, this something causes a girl to realize that she likes you for the first time! Jealously is a powerful emotion.
How to Make a Girl Like You: Loose Ends
Once you get to the point that you're 90% sure that she likes you, then you need to know how to kiss. Many guys wonder why they need to learn how to kiss before they've fully understood how to make a girl like you. The simple answer to that is that a kiss can happen even if she's not sure whether or not she likes you yet. But when the kiss does happen -- and it's a good one -- you're as good as gold.
As you can see, having the right attitude and acting non-needy is really all there is to learning how to make a girl like you.
March 7th, 2012 - 02:55
Winning back your girlfriend that you’re still best fidners with.?My best friend is female, and we get along perfectly. We tried the whole dating thing and everything was perfect, or so i thought, she doesn’t have feelings like that for me anymore. but I know for a fact we still care about each other more than anything, everyone thinks we’re dating and all i want is to be with her. what should I do? we’re still like best fidners and talk all day everyday, and talking to her is literally torture because I can’t help but think what we had.a lot of people say to just ignore her and talk to her every now and then, and pretend you’re not bothered by it. but it’s really hard to do when they’re ur best friend. and I don’t want to risk everything over some attempt at getting her back. although i do want her back more than anything ..ugh.
March 8th, 2012 - 10:06
Thanks for your question, Ening.
What happened when you “tried the dating thing?” Did she break it off or did it just not live up to expectations.
This sounds like something that is really bothering you and has the potential to get between your friendship.
There’s no need to do anything risky to get her back. How do you think she would react if you told her how you felt, openly and honestly?
-Susan
March 31st, 2012 - 17:18
its this girl ik since 3rd grade ever since we had like an comptitive life style. and this is always on my case, is that a sign that she likes me?
April 3rd, 2012 - 09:42
Yes, that’s usually a good sign. Different girls display affection in different ways. One common way is to bust your chops. Just don’t be afraid to dish it out to her too!
April 9th, 2012 - 23:25
Hey susan , am kinda getting mixed emotions over this girl i really like , when i first told this girl that i had feelings for her, she replied that she didn`t really have any sort of feelings for us and that she`s not ready for a relationship . now over a period of time of being flirtatious with her she started to do it back , now i don`t know whether if its her just being friendly or what ?? cause i get the impression she does like us by the way we look at one another but then sometimes i just feel like she doesn`t sort of thing . i think whats make me more uncertain is the fact that am probably trying to read her whether she does or not more than anything.
April 10th, 2012 - 13:48
Hey Mikey,
Great question. Getting mixed signals is something that nearly all guys experience from a girl…and it can be extremely frustrating!
Here’s why us gals may not give off easy-to-read-signals:
1. We aren’t sure how we feel
2. We aren’t sure how YOU feel
3. We are testing you to see how you react to things
Either way, the best thing you can do is give her a little more space. Now that she seems interested in you, backing off a bit will make her afraid of losing you. Remember: “we chase that which retreats from us”!.
-Susan
April 11th, 2012 - 19:58
Hey susan , thanks for the feedback , its a great help
usually its my friends that have this sort of trouble and cause that am able to give them the advice you`ve gave us but when your in the same “sticky position ” its difficult to assume whether or not sort of thing.
my regards Mikey
April 12th, 2012 - 10:10
Hey Mikey,
My pleasure! I think you’re going to be alright.
Please let me know if you need any more advice!
-Susan
April 12th, 2012 - 20:48
Hey susan , like i said your advice has been a big help and am really grateful . after looking over your points, would it conincide with someone if they never had a relationship before ??
mikey
April 13th, 2012 - 10:42
Hey Mikey,
Glad to be of service : )
Sure, the advice would apply to seasoned veterans or first-timers. Obviously, it helps to have a relationship or two under your belt first, but it’s not necessary.
-Susan
April 13th, 2012 - 11:57
Hey susan
yer your advice has been a great help , its kinda opened up new horizons when situating whether a girl likes you. am at point whether to forget about it cause i openly told her its more than a crush and that i`ve fallen in love with her the big word haha . her respond was like you said in your first message that she unsure whether she ready or not and doesn`t know when she`ll ever be ready !! but at the same time she said that she doesn`t want to disappoint me and i`ve made it clear that i would be willing to wait but in theory it feels worthless if am honest .
mikey
April 14th, 2012 - 12:13
Mikey,
Keep your head up my friend. I know it may seem hopeless but as soon as it works you’ll be singing a VERY different tune.
-Susan
April 14th, 2012 - 21:15
well thats true , i would be like i`ve won the jackpot haha . i just think like that cause am use to disappointment now more than ever and i just always assume the worse before anything , i suppose thats because of the previous relationship i had
April 16th, 2012 - 17:29
Hi again Mikey,
Remember that girls are more focused on attitude than looks (which is the opposite of guys).
And one thing girls are VERY attracted to is optimism. Cultivate that and girls will come to you
-Susan
April 13th, 2012 - 02:14
hey Susan , theres a girl that sits across frm me on my bus that i like alot but we’re separated by my friend and it seems shes following your advise but on him. she also seems to icnore me.W hat should I do?
April 13th, 2012 - 10:47
Hey Chris,
Thanks for your question!
Are there any other times during the day that you can talk to her? Maybe after the bus ride?
Also, if you think she likes your friend, you may have to work a bit harder to get her to like you. Try chatting with other girls on the bus to show her that you’re worthy of a cute girl’s attention.
-Susan
April 19th, 2012 - 23:39
Hey susan how do i keep my self from falling into the friend zone because it always happens!
April 20th, 2012 - 08:35
Hi Dominick,
Great question! This is a problem that happens to HUNDREDS of guys out there.
Here are some posts that should help you avoid the friend zone:
http://howtogetagirltolikeyoul.com/how-to-attract-a-girl-5-powerful-tips/
http://howtogetagirltolikeyoul.com/how-to-make-a-girl-love-you-this-makes-any-girl-fall-in-love-with-you/
and last but not least: http://howtogetagirltolikeyoul.com/how-to-get-girls-to-want-you/
Good luck!
Susan
April 20th, 2012 - 03:50
Hey Susan I have a huge crush on a girl in my class!!!! But I don’t know if she likes me Because sometimes I talk to her and she tells me to be quit, but sometimes She laughs and talks to me. What do I do? Does she like me?
-Patrick Pearson
April 20th, 2012 - 03:53
Also sometimes she calls me annoying!!!! So can you PLEASE!!!! help me????
April 20th, 2012 - 04:09
Also I have ADHD!!!!
April 20th, 2012 - 08:38
Hi Patrick,
This article will tell you everything you need to know:
http://howtogetagirltolikeyoul.com/how-to-tell-if-a-girl-likes-you/
Memorize the signs and you’ll ALWAYS know if the girl likes you back.
-Susan
April 20th, 2012 - 22:40
Hey Susan, Well I don’t Really talk to her cause I get Nervous If i want to tell her something I will have my friends tell her for me. There are only certain occasions That I talk to her.
-Patrick
April 20th, 2012 - 22:42
Also i don’t like to talk to her When shes is with a Group of friends!!!!
-Patrick